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Tuesday, March 12, 2019

Histrionic Personality and Sex, Are they good lovers?

Personality and Sexual Well-Being

By: THEODORE MILLON and
      Seth Grossman
      Carrie Millon
      Sarah Meagher
      Rowena Ramnath

Histrionic personalities demonstrate, usually in a mildly caricatured form, what our society fosters and admires in its members: to be popular, extroverted, attractive, and sociable. Interpersonally, they use seductive maneuvers to attract the attention they crave.

But do they follow through and sustain that initial impression?

Are they good lovers?


Apparently, the answer is         NO

Apt and Hurlbert (1994) studied a sample of women who had been diagnosed as histrionic using the MCMI-II and compared them to a matched sample of other non-histrionic women in a series of measures of sexual behaviors and attitudes.

Histrionic women were found to have;

·         significantly lower sexual assertiveness,
·         greater eroto-phobic attitudes toward sex,
·         lower self-esteem,
·         and greater marital dissatisfaction;

They were found to be more preoccupied with sexual thoughts; and they reported having lower sexual desire and more sexual boredom.

They also reported a greater incidence of orgasmic dysfunction and indicated a greater likelihood of entering into an extramarital affair.

Despite such negative findings, histrionics reported greater sexual self-esteem.

Although the results of this particular study referred to histrionic women, there is no reason to believe that histrionic men are any more sexually competent. In fact, a similar pattern of high sexual self-esteem and difficulties has been identified for males and labeled sexual narcissism by the same authors (Hurlbert & Apt, 1991).

References

Personality Disorders in Modern Life, second edition, 2000, 2004 by John Wiley & Sons, Inc.

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